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Valentine's Magic: Gender Expression

Valentine's Magic: Gender Expression

What do you and/or the lover in your life want for Valentine's day? The freedom of self expression in safe inclusive spaces with access to gender affirming products? 

Yeah, us too! 

So, with that in mind, and Valentine’s Day just around the corner, GFH is shining a very loving and celebratory light on all those who live and/or play across the spectrum of gender. 🥰 Stay tuned for all that is gender expression and inclusivity week 😉


Big butts, small butts, hairy butts, butt cheeks, butt holes - we all got ’em so let's love ’em! There’s a whole world of anal play and pleasure out there, whether you have a prostate in your butt or not. Explore what you can do for your butt, or rather what your butt can do for you; you can thank us later!

Fuze Arrow Silicone Butt Plug

The Fuze Arrow is a fantastic newbie option for beginning your journey of anal play. About the width of one finger, this tapered, smooth silicone classic plug will not disappoint. Leave it on while you play in other ways and enjoy the round hollow base that allows for bullet-vibe to boost your pleasure.

CalExotics Ultimate Cleansing System Black Douche

Enhance the anal experience with this easy to use ultimate cleaning system. Novice or seasoned pro, its soft, ergonomically curved and flexible precise application will help make your douche experience comfortable - it also holds up 9.5 fl. oz. and is easily disassembled for cleaning.

Adam's Rechargeable Vibrating Prostate Probe

You absolutely do not need a penis to stimulate your partner's prostate - this rechargeable, waterproof toy is flexible, comfortable and hits all the sweetest spots! Best part is, if you don't have a prostate, this toy is great for reaching a G- spot too, making it a great versatile toy to add to your collection.

Aneros Black Ice Progasm Prostate Stimulator

Made of sleek medical grade plastic that’s non-toxic and basically unbreakable, the Black Ice Progasm is designed to fit the anal cavity perfectly. Shifting with your body’s movements, the toy can bring you to prostate bliss, while the outer bits of the toy stimulate the perineum and the very base of the spine. Play with this alone or with a friend: either way you’ll be levelling up your butt game. 


SpareParts Deuce Double Harness

A specially made harness for folks with a home grown penis and testes, designed to uniquely hold those bits comfortably out of the way or in play while enjoying the use of a dildo with your partner. The adjustable straps help the wearer keep everything in place, while having the freedom to move through different positions and maintain control throughout.  

Sportsheets Neoprene Thigh Harness

Looking to add a little something extra to your date night? This definitely has the potential to spice things up be it for the wearer or the rider. Made from smooth stretchy fabric that’s sturdy and built to function with adjustable straps, it fits a variety of thighs and any dildo with a flat round base. 

Aslan Forge Forced Orgasm Harness

This specialty made harness was built for two desires: to hold a Hitachi Magic Wand (or similar wand massager ) in place and/or forced orgasm play. It’s made from soft leather that feels great, looks sexy and fits like a glove. You can adjust the Hitachi Magic Wand to position in the front or the back, giving you and your partner lots of exciting variety for your pleasure. 

Aslan Jaguar Slim Leather Harness

The Jaguar Slim is made to deliver the ultimate ride with comfort, style and function in mind. The dildo placement sits lower than the traditional Jock design allowing for added pressure on the clit/ bits/ junk. Its slimline buckles do up at the hips and include the D ring closures on the butt straps - creating maximum comfort and hold. Enjoy this stylish harness with a flat based dildo of your choice


My New Gender Workbook: A Step-by-Step Guide to Achieving World Peace Through Gender Anarchy and Sex Positivity By Kate Bornstein

This book offers readers a foundation of knowledge in examining gender and dismantling all forms of oppression. It encourages asking challenging questions around the experience of gender in race, sexuality, class systems, and language. Packed full of quizzes and exercises, this workbook builds new concepts that can be grounded in the gender spectrum.

Super Fun Sexy Times Vol. 1 Graphic Novel by Meredith McClaren

Enjoy five short, sex-positive, humorous, and erotic stories featuring superheroes and villains, sidekicks and lovers. The author spotlights a variety of body types and sexualities and asks the question “what happens when the mask comes off?”

A Quick & Easy Guide to They/Them Pronouns by Archie Bongiovanni and Tristan Jimerson

What do you get when a snarky genderqueer artist and a cisgender dude come together to create a book about introducing gender-neutral pronouns into your life? You get this quick and easy resource that helps make changes in language in a simple, descriptive and informative manner. Learn what to do when you make a mistake, how to address it, what pronouns are, and why they matter. 

Take Me There: Trans and Genderqueer Erotica edited by Tristan Taormino

Take Me There is an erotic collection is like nothing else you’ve read before. It’s a celebration of pleasure and diversity within the transgender and queergender spectrum. It also explores a central theme of what it means to be seen and sexually desired just as you are. 

Panties/ Lingerie 

Wicked Mmm Underwear

These fancy panties are made to fit folks with a package - and these lovely undies will hold with or without an erection. They’re made of soft dainty lace that's comfortable, yet strong, high quality and doesn't cut into the skin, leaving a seamless look under clothes.

Black See Through Bra

Made with interior pockets for inserting breast forms, this sexy soft bra with see-through cups is sure to please. Blessed by being wire- free and thus more comfortable, the stretch lace trim, adjustable elastic shoulder straps and small embellishments such as a satin bow and pearls lay in the centre panel for an added touch of class and sex appeal.

Underworks COTTON LINED Ultimate Double Panel Chest Binder Tank

These classic binders are made from medical industry grade, powernet spandex that provides breathable, comfortable yet maximum support for chest binding. The added cotton lining adds to the comfort and reduces chafing for everyday wear, sports, specific needs, or if the occasion calls for it.


Pumps and Strokers

New York Toy Collective Trans Masc Pump

This pump is a translucent cylinder with a comfortable wide base that helps to create fantastic suction, helping anyone achieve instant growth. Designed with queer, trans masculine and non-binary bodies in mind. Use this pump to get the blood flowing, helping to increase sensation and stimulation to the genitals for pleasure on its own or prior to play.

Pitstop FTM Shotpocket Silicone Stroker Sleeve

This sleeve is locally designed and made for trans men, FTMs, non-binary folks and anyone else who has testosterone induced growth to their lower bits. Easy to use and easy to clean, this 100% silicone sleeve creates fantastic suction, is ribbed on the inside for extra pleasure and can be used solo or with a partner.


Packers and Squirters

Strap-On-Me Squirting Cum Silicone Dildo

Made of seamless soft-touch silicone with a flexible neck and built to adapt to the wearer's anatomy - this product is perfect for giving you the true to life experience of ejaculation. Fill the syringe with your choice of lube and when you're ready press the syringe to make the dildo ejaculate. This toy even comes with one tube of creamy lubricant.

Vixen Creations Mr. Right VixSkin Silicone Packer

Enter probably the most realistic packer out there! The Mr. Right VixSkin Packing Dildo is sturdy and features a true-to-life look and feel, complete with realistic head, shaft, and balls to provide a great look, under clothes or fully visible.

Form Function Model D Sport Cut STP Packer

Designed to be worn all day, this packer warms to the body and is made of 100% silicone which is allergenic and non-porous; it's not just easy to clean but will last. Another nice touch is that the hollowed out part can fit a vibrator for some extra fun with or without a partner. 

New York Toy Collective Pierre Packer

​​Made of 100% silicone, hypo-allergenic and non-porous, this line of packers warms to the body. Its anatomically correct look gives the wearer the option of having the uncircumcised penis of their choosing. Pair it with a harness or snug underwear to keep it in place. The weight, look, colour options and feel of the Pierre packer won't disappoint.