Valentine's Day 2020 Erotic Recipe 3: Butt Seduction 🍑🍑🍑
Butts often have untapped potential for pleasure. Seduce your partner with a slow and seductive anal pleasure session, stimulating them in ways they may have never tried before. Whether your partner is a novice who needs it to be slow or an anal aficionado who is fun to tease with slow sensations, this recipe will uncover new and intense pleasures that might become a part of your regular play!
You could use:
- Mardi Gras Beads
- A thick lubricant such as Pjur Backdoor Waterbased or Pjur Silicone
- Black Gloves, Female Condom and/or dental dams
- Fuze Quattro with Vibrator
- B-Vibe Rimming Plug
- The Steady
Setting the scene:
Seduction of the butt is no different than other kinds of seduction. You want to ensure that the butt is relaxed and trusting. The best way to relax the area, especially for a novice or someone who has had painful anal experiences is to spend lots of time on the outside before progressing inwards.
Invite your partner to have a shower with you. Wash them down and include their butt crack if they are open to it. Some people prefer to wash that area themselves. If they allow you to do it, linger some extra time and massage the anus gently in a way that teases them about what is to come.
Ask your partner to get naked and lie face down with a pillow under their abdomen for comfort. Make sure that the room is warm (portable heaters are great for that!). Start with some long strokes from head to toe, gently grazing the crack of the butt. You can also give a back massage and butt cheek massage with oil to deepen the relaxation.
Take the Mardi Gras beads and drag them along the crack of the butt. Try folding them in half or quarters for a wider sensation. Ensure that you are also grazing the inner thigh as you do so. You can also graze the crack of the butt with your gloves before putting them on. Or thwacking them against the butt cheek for sound (but minimal physical) effects.
Put a condom on any regular vibrator to add vibrations to the anus on the outside. Use your tongue to tease and tantalize the anus (use a dental dam with a little lubricant on the underside if you prefer). Use your fingers with lubricant or oil to add sensations. Try gliding the side of your hands down the crack of your partner’s butt from top to bottom in sequence (right hand, then left hand). Try using your knuckles in between their butt cheeks against their anus. Move your fingers alternately as though you were playing a wind instrument (the knuckles are in contact with your partner’s butt, your fingers are moving). Don’t be shy to add a bit of pressure. Some people might want to get on all fours so that you can also play with their penis or vulva/ vagina. Some might want to turn over and lie on their back so that you can make eye contact and have better access to their genitals.
After a good 10-15 minutes of external pleasure, ask your partner if they want you to just remain on the outside of their butt or if they would like some gradual internal pleasure. If they are ok with you going inside, start with the pad of your finger doing a gentle doorbell motion. Some folks want to use gloves for internal play for easier clean-up. Once you get your finger inside, rather than doing the typical in-and-out motion, do more of a rotating around motion- this tends to keep the anus more relaxed while still feeling extremely pleasurable. Use another hand to pleasure other parts of your partner’s body. After a few minutes, you can switch to the Quattro butt toy. Put lots of lubricant on it and insert it slowly. If there is any resistance or pain, ask your partner to breathe and squeeze their anal sphincter muscles. You can push the toy and out for a delicious sensation. Sometimes the slower, the better. Massage the anus on the outside with your hand as you move the toy. You can put a small vibrator in the hole at the base to increase the intensity. If your partner is interested in progressing to something larger, leave the Quattro in place for a few minutes while you play with other areas in order to let the anal sphincters relax.
Two fabulous toys to use next are the Bvibe Rimming plugs or the Steady. The Rimming Plugs have little balls inside the narrow neck of the toy which rotate around when inside, producing amazing sensations. Insert the toy with lots of lubricant. The remote control allows you or your partner to adjust the intensity and movement while you play with other erogenous zones. A partner with a prostate might feel especially strong sensations there. A partner with a vagina might enjoy the added pressure towards the vagina that will make the vaginal canal narrower and thus more sensitive. Anywhere your partner wants more pleasure at the same time is awesome. The steady is a little more intense than the Quattro and is to be used with very slow in-and-out motions. It gives intense pleasure with minimal effort.
You can progress to other toys or intercourse as your partner wishes. Some folks like to use a Female or Insertive Condom. It has several advantages: it provides a barrier to whatever is inserted in coming into contact with fecal matter. This means that toys that are removed are relatively clean (in particular with respect to appearance). It also ensures that all of the lubricant inserted stays within the condom rather than being pushed up past the toy/ penis.
The goal in your butt seduction adventure is pleasure, not getting something inside. Take your time, enjoy the journey. There will generally be a 'next time' for play. So don’t feel that you have to rush anything. The more you rush, the longer it takes for the butt to trust the next time. Allow your partner time to savour the sensations.
See all Erotic Recipes here:
#1: Don't Move
#2: Out and About
#3: Butt Seduction
#4: Sensual Bondage
