Valentine's Day 2020 Erotic Recipe 1: Don’t Move
You are the director of your partner’s pleasure. Tease them with sensations, threatening to stop if they move or make sounds.
You will need:
- Special drinks and snacks (optional)
- Rose petals (you can purchase them in bags at most florists)
- A new outfit for your partner or select one you want your partner to wear from their existing clothes options (make sure it is something that fits)
- Drinks or snacks you would like to have on hand for after the scene
- A card
- Vibrator such as the Amy or Vick or Hot Octopuss Pulse Solo
- Lubricant such as Non-Friction
- Feather
- Pinwheel
- Blindfold
Setting the scene:
Several days ahead, handwrite instructions on a card as to where and when you want them to arrive and what to do e.g., “On Saturday, go to the gym/ spa/ coffee with friends/ for a walk and return home (or come to my home) at 8 pm. After you enter, do not touch anything. Go into the bedroom and put on the item(s) laid out on the bed. Lie down on your front and don’t move. Wait for me.”
On the night of the scene, leave your home relatively dark with a few safe candles or soft lights leading the way to the bedroom. Throw rose petals on the ground leading to the bedroom. Put on a playlist of music that conveys the mood of the scene you are creating. Layout the clothes you want your partner to wear and the blindfold. Place any drinks and snacks beside the bed in an elegant manner.
Prepare a hiding place that you can go to when you see your partner just outside of the house. When your partner is lying and waiting on the bed, emerge from your hiding place and whisper quietly in their ear to remain still. Tell them that you will stop if they move or make a sound.
Tease your partner with the feather, pinwheel and vibrator all over. Avoid their erogenous zones at first, moving the items up and down the body. Pair them up for contrast, using one toy in one hand and another in the other following behind. Move them slowly towards your partner’s erogenous zones but not quite on them. Tell your partner to turn over and continue. Gradually build the arousal with the sex toy closer to your partner’s erogenous zones. If your partner moves or makes a sound, remove the sensation and remind them that you will stop if they continue to move or make sounds. You can incorporate any fantasy or other toys that your partner likes or has requested. Gradually build the arousal for your partner, allowing them to move slightly, as long as they seem like they are trying to restrain themselves. If not, withdraw the pleasure again. End as you like, focused on your partner’s pleasure.
See all Erotic Recipes here:
#1: Don't Move
#2: Out and About
#3: Butt Seduction
#4: Sensual Bondage
